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	<title>Comments on: &#8220;Why the planet needs more non-breeders&#8221;</title>
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		<title>By: erin</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-1272</link>
		<dc:creator>erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 06:58:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My partner and I have been together for 4 years and we have both decided not to have children. For us there are many reasons not to - we save money, we have our freedom, and we focus on each other as individuals rather than &quot;parents&quot;. We have a cat, and plan to get a dog further down the track, and that will be more than enough for us. We love our life. I don&#039;t think it&#039;s &quot;weird&quot; at all.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My partner and I have been together for 4 years and we have both decided not to have children. For us there are many reasons not to &#8211; we save money, we have our freedom, and we focus on each other as individuals rather than &#8220;parents&#8221;. We have a cat, and plan to get a dog further down the track, and that will be more than enough for us. We love our life. I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s &#8220;weird&#8221; at all.</p>
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		<title>By: valy</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-758</link>
		<dc:creator>valy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 11:48:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cameron Diaz had found another reason why I woman should not have a baby. For me I think she has alway the right idea about maternity. Very interesting! As Cameron i don&#039;t think I&#039;m gonna be a mother in my life, so I think this could be another valid reason I could say when people ask me if I want kids.This article should be readed by those women and men who say that maternity is the main experience a woman becomes complete with.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cameron Diaz had found another reason why I woman should not have a baby. For me I think she has alway the right idea about maternity. Very interesting! As Cameron i don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m gonna be a mother in my life, so I think this could be another valid reason I could say when people ask me if I want kids.This article should be readed by those women and men who say that maternity is the main experience a woman becomes complete with.</p>
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		<title>By: mia</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-569</link>
		<dc:creator>mia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 00:35:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I personally don&#039;t think it should be necessary to give reasons why not to have children. Its a very personal choice, but every time I say that I really don&#039;t want to have kids, people glare and demand my reasoning. Screw reasoning. Not all women are natural nurturers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally don&#8217;t think it should be necessary to give reasons why not to have children. Its a very personal choice, but every time I say that I really don&#8217;t want to have kids, people glare and demand my reasoning. Screw reasoning. Not all women are natural nurturers.</p>
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		<title>By: RebJ</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-559</link>
		<dc:creator>RebJ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 03:07:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s plenty of kids out there, they just need to be distributed more evenly into the rest of the world through adoption.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s plenty of kids out there, they just need to be distributed more evenly into the rest of the world through adoption.</p>
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		<title>By: pmsrhino</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-541</link>
		<dc:creator>pmsrhino</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a proud non-breeder. And the thing about adopting children has always been a key point for me. I would never want to bring a new person into this world (it&#039;s hella messed up) but I cannot deny a child that is already in it love and compassion. If I ever want to have kids (I think I&#039;m already through the good part of my extremely fertile years and that &quot;maternal calling&quot; or whatever has never kicked in for me, though I guess there&#039;s still the &quot;biological clock&quot; ticking away) I will most definitely adopt. Probably an older kid too, people focus too much on adopting &quot;adorable&quot; babies and completely look over the older children most of the time. It would be nice if more celebrities said things like this. Celebs are constantly pushing motherhood at us, and it feels like being a mom is the cool thing today. It is refreshing to see an A list celebrity saying they are choosing to not have children. It&#039;s really pretty awesome.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a proud non-breeder. And the thing about adopting children has always been a key point for me. I would never want to bring a new person into this world (it&#8217;s hella messed up) but I cannot deny a child that is already in it love and compassion. If I ever want to have kids (I think I&#8217;m already through the good part of my extremely fertile years and that &#8220;maternal calling&#8221; or whatever has never kicked in for me, though I guess there&#8217;s still the &#8220;biological clock&#8221; ticking away) I will most definitely adopt. Probably an older kid too, people focus too much on adopting &#8220;adorable&#8221; babies and completely look over the older children most of the time. It would be nice if more celebrities said things like this. Celebs are constantly pushing motherhood at us, and it feels like being a mom is the cool thing today. It is refreshing to see an A list celebrity saying they are choosing to not have children. It&#8217;s really pretty awesome.</p>
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		<title>By: acetyleen</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-539</link>
		<dc:creator>acetyleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 07:30:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This reminds me of the movie Idiocracy. 

 I think one reason I don&#039;t want to have children, is fueled in part by patriarchy. I don&#039;t want anybody&#039;s name, and I am a daughter so MY children wont be seen as &quot;carrying on the family name&quot; to my parents. Lunacy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This reminds me of the movie Idiocracy. </p>
<p> I think one reason I don&#8217;t want to have children, is fueled in part by patriarchy. I don&#8217;t want anybody&#8217;s name, and I am a daughter so MY children wont be seen as &#8220;carrying on the family name&#8221; to my parents. Lunacy.</p>
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		<title>By: Brooke</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brooke</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 07:27:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From a feminist breeder standpoint I&#039;m a little offended by this article. Not that I am disagreeing that overpopulation is one of the causes of global warming. HOWEVER, I think that the statement &quot;non-breeder&quot; is in itself bias, does that make women who have children &quot;breeders&quot;? A pretty sexist word which has been used against women who have children to de-humanize them and their families. Also I think this general argument places an unfair burden on women and mothers, unfair blame as well. Yes, human population increase is partly to blame for global warming. However part of the reason why there has been a huge increase in population has been due to a huge increase in the amount of food via destructive technologies and other political acts, not just people choosing to have or not have children. Labeling one&#039;s self a &quot;non-breeder&quot; also reeks of middle class privilege. Easy if you can afford medical care, birth control and maybe even sterilization. Easy maybe if you can demand that your sexual partners wear condoms. Yet for women who are outside of the middle and upper classes, women whose access to birth control is limited or women who are being sexually abused, mentally or physically abused by their partners, their ability to be non-breeders is compromised by those factors. These women are the most offend attacked and burdened by our society&#039;s anti-child attitude. 

I&#039;m also understand the argument from a feminist standpoint that women should have the option of not having children without being seen as crazy. I&#039;m not to sure about that survey. Being a parent I see myself being discriminated against or held up to a double standard because of the fact that I have a child and cannot be committed to my work environment the same way a single childless person can. I also I don&#039;t think there is anything wrong with seeing mothers as maternal. The problem is when people cannot see the duality, that a mother can be a very maternal, nurturing, loving parent, but also a strong woman. 

What women really deserve is respect for their choices without criticisms from either the right or the left about their reproductive choices. I think if people choose not to have children that is great. I personally don&#039;t plan on having another child myself. However the level of criticism that women have received in this &quot;green&quot; movement for having children is counterproductive to the goals that environmentalist should be focusing on and serves as a distraction to the real issues. Like that Obama fully supports burning coal, a leading cause of green house gas?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From a feminist breeder standpoint I&#8217;m a little offended by this article. Not that I am disagreeing that overpopulation is one of the causes of global warming. HOWEVER, I think that the statement &#8220;non-breeder&#8221; is in itself bias, does that make women who have children &#8220;breeders&#8221;? A pretty sexist word which has been used against women who have children to de-humanize them and their families. Also I think this general argument places an unfair burden on women and mothers, unfair blame as well. Yes, human population increase is partly to blame for global warming. However part of the reason why there has been a huge increase in population has been due to a huge increase in the amount of food via destructive technologies and other political acts, not just people choosing to have or not have children. Labeling one&#8217;s self a &#8220;non-breeder&#8221; also reeks of middle class privilege. Easy if you can afford medical care, birth control and maybe even sterilization. Easy maybe if you can demand that your sexual partners wear condoms. Yet for women who are outside of the middle and upper classes, women whose access to birth control is limited or women who are being sexually abused, mentally or physically abused by their partners, their ability to be non-breeders is compromised by those factors. These women are the most offend attacked and burdened by our society&#8217;s anti-child attitude. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m also understand the argument from a feminist standpoint that women should have the option of not having children without being seen as crazy. I&#8217;m not to sure about that survey. Being a parent I see myself being discriminated against or held up to a double standard because of the fact that I have a child and cannot be committed to my work environment the same way a single childless person can. I also I don&#8217;t think there is anything wrong with seeing mothers as maternal. The problem is when people cannot see the duality, that a mother can be a very maternal, nurturing, loving parent, but also a strong woman. </p>
<p>What women really deserve is respect for their choices without criticisms from either the right or the left about their reproductive choices. I think if people choose not to have children that is great. I personally don&#8217;t plan on having another child myself. However the level of criticism that women have received in this &#8220;green&#8221; movement for having children is counterproductive to the goals that environmentalist should be focusing on and serves as a distraction to the real issues. Like that Obama fully supports burning coal, a leading cause of green house gas?</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Rickey</title>
		<link>http://thefbomb.org/2009/07/why-the-planet-needs-more-non-breeders/comment-page-1/#comment-536</link>
		<dc:creator>Dave Rickey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 06:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Alex Catgirl:

The point I was making is that I will *have* descendants.  Ms. Diaz and company are culling themselves out in advance, reducing the competition for those descendants of mine.  I actually am grateful to her for that.

For genetic purposes, non-breeders may as well have already &quot;dropped dead&quot;.  Express your moral outrage if you like, but any ZPG program that doesn&#039;t involve fully automatic weapons, bio-engineered disease, and/or nuclear fire, is just mental masturbation.

My grandchildren won&#039;t care how immoral their existence is by your standards, and neither will the ones you won&#039;t have care about your rectitude and respect for their nonexistent needs.

Anyway, in case you haven&#039;t noticed over the last 30-40 years, the best population control program is a western middle-class lifestyle.  All across Europe, chunks of Asia, and the US/Canada, we&#039;re not even making our own replacements.

If you&#039;re complaining about population growth and not planning on either killing a few billion people in Africa, Latin America, and the less developed portions of Asia, or embracing consumerism and trying to figure out how to make it sustainable on the necessary scales, you&#039;re wasting your time.

Truth is, for various reasons connected to your guilt at *living* a high-consumption lifestyle (no matter how much hemp clothing or carbon credits you buy, the mere fact you&#039;re on the internet saying this means you have the environmental footprint of a large African village), you don&#039;t want to have children.  Fine, feel free.  But spare me the outrage, it&#039;s so hollow it&#039;s transparent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Alex Catgirl:</p>
<p>The point I was making is that I will *have* descendants.  Ms. Diaz and company are culling themselves out in advance, reducing the competition for those descendants of mine.  I actually am grateful to her for that.</p>
<p>For genetic purposes, non-breeders may as well have already &#8220;dropped dead&#8221;.  Express your moral outrage if you like, but any ZPG program that doesn&#8217;t involve fully automatic weapons, bio-engineered disease, and/or nuclear fire, is just mental masturbation.</p>
<p>My grandchildren won&#8217;t care how immoral their existence is by your standards, and neither will the ones you won&#8217;t have care about your rectitude and respect for their nonexistent needs.</p>
<p>Anyway, in case you haven&#8217;t noticed over the last 30-40 years, the best population control program is a western middle-class lifestyle.  All across Europe, chunks of Asia, and the US/Canada, we&#8217;re not even making our own replacements.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re complaining about population growth and not planning on either killing a few billion people in Africa, Latin America, and the less developed portions of Asia, or embracing consumerism and trying to figure out how to make it sustainable on the necessary scales, you&#8217;re wasting your time.</p>
<p>Truth is, for various reasons connected to your guilt at *living* a high-consumption lifestyle (no matter how much hemp clothing or carbon credits you buy, the mere fact you&#8217;re on the internet saying this means you have the environmental footprint of a large African village), you don&#8217;t want to have children.  Fine, feel free.  But spare me the outrage, it&#8217;s so hollow it&#8217;s transparent.</p>
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		<title>By: Wednesday Blogaround &#171; The Gender Blender Blog</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wednesday Blogaround &#171; The Gender Blender Blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 04:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Why the planet needs more non-breeders &#8211; a post from fbomb, an awesome new young feminist blog, on Cameron Diaz&#8217;s decision to not have kids (for the environment) and how women are caught in a double bind where they are judged for both wanting/having kids and not wanting/not having kids. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Why the planet needs more non-breeders &#8211; a post from fbomb, an awesome new young feminist blog, on Cameron Diaz&#8217;s decision to not have kids (for the environment) and how women are caught in a double bind where they are judged for both wanting/having kids and not wanting/not having kids. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: @Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>@Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 04:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amanda, I take issue with your comment. Please reconsider the implications of society placing value only on the reproductions of certain groups of people. 

Children may follow in their parent&#039;s economic/educational footsteps, but this is a failure of the system not of some &quot;white trash&quot; gene that is inherent in poor people. By not assisting families in need (of food, more money for education, affordable higher education, etc etc) we are recreating the cycle of poverty. Eugenics works all ways, try substituting your sentence with any racial or ethnic group and see how problematic it can become.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amanda, I take issue with your comment. Please reconsider the implications of society placing value only on the reproductions of certain groups of people. </p>
<p>Children may follow in their parent&#8217;s economic/educational footsteps, but this is a failure of the system not of some &#8220;white trash&#8221; gene that is inherent in poor people. By not assisting families in need (of food, more money for education, affordable higher education, etc etc) we are recreating the cycle of poverty. Eugenics works all ways, try substituting your sentence with any racial or ethnic group and see how problematic it can become.</p>
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